Although each family is different, has its mistakes and difficulties, it's something we all need. We all need a place to runaway from everything and sometimes that 'everything' might be even home. But in the end, when we don't have any power left and need a shelter, I think family is there for us. Again, not all are like that. I know many, too many, people who have issues, really big ones, inside their houses. They fight, argue and yell. It's no shelter at all and it doesn't make you feel any better either. Sometimes it just makes everything worse. But many families are different. Any has problems. But I think each and every one is resolvable. But it takes will, courage and eating your pride even at times when you think, when it seems you're the one who's right. To keep good relations in family, you need determination and love.
Again; there are families that have really bad problems. And far to less people care about it. We all only care about our asses, harshly speaking. But it's the truth. So I'm really really happy when I see somewhere some jumbo posters or ads on TV about awareness of how serious those things are, how tense the situation is. And far to many kids are ungrateful, bored, just sassy and spoiled. They don't even realise how lucky they are that they're not beaten at home, that they have roofs under their heads, wi-fi, food... So many things they should be grateful for. But no, instead of taking a moment and thank for all they have, they only want more. I mean, isn't that sad and scary? How we all sometimes are selfish and ignorant and don't know what we have? But yeah, at the same time; we live that life and they theirs. But still, that doesn't mean, it's not an excuse and certainly doesn't keep us apart from aware people of family troubles. We should do it a lot more often, get people together, talk about it, do something about it.
I have a school-mate and she almost everyday comes to school with bruises she's trying to hide, but everyone sees them. And no one says shit. I talk to her often, but she just pushes me away and after all, like most people think: It's none of my business. But she IS my friend and I see her everyday at school and have known her for nine years, therefore it IS my deal, it IS my business and I should do something about it. I can't just peacefully watch her cry on toilets and act like I didn't see anything?! And above all that, it's sad that there are so many cases like hers around the world and we don't know about them. Women get hurt, parents drinking, gambeling issues, debts, criminal acts... So many options and all those are around us. We should think about it more and aware people about that, get them to know to this stuff. Teach them what to do. Teach them to listen and to react. To have a voice.
But, fortunately, there are also families, that don't have such big issues.Who might yell sometimes and argue and be angry, but then again; which isn't? We all have problems, but should be grateful that we can solve them. Yes, there are times when things look like they can't be solved and that there isn't any solution. But there is, in every problem and hard time. "Happiness can be found even in the
darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light." smart, great Dumbledore says. And I totally agree with him. Each step, moment and situation has to be taken with care, love and attitude. Every little thing becomes so easy, light, simple and resolvable when it the end is approaching, when it's near that you can even feel it. Then suddenly, every single problem is not a problem anymore. It was just a era that seemed impossible to cross. But now it's over. Remember: nothing lasts forever. Enjoy good times, because they will pass. And when you're in a bad mood, sad or think it's not making any sense anymore, remember; it cannot last for long either. So hold your head up high and enjoy the view.
Now the relations in family. I think to maintain good relationships between any member of the family, it's important that every single thing you do you do it with love. Because family is all about love. What else could be more, than family? They were, are and will be there for you. Trust me. So sometimes, yes, you have to swallow your pride and admit and move on. It helps, really. It saves you a lot of time, arguing and hard times. You'll see.
Anyway, there can be "special" bonds between relatives too. And by special, I mean, again, problems. It can be your father, mother, brother,... Anyone, really, cause we all have flaws. But in the end, we'd all like to forgive each other, hug and say that it's gonna we alright. In the end, it's alright. If it's not alright, it's not the end.
So believe in your family and things will be achievable. Things will get better and so will relations. We all need family, we all need each other, someone who will got our back when no one else will. That's what family's for. To stand by you and ALSO let you be what you wanna be, help you finding yourself in the blur of madness, confussion and unoriginality. Just stand up, if family doesn't believe in you or you in yourself, who will? They're the only thing you've got left. And trust me, it is worth of a try. Just try.
Again; there are families that have really bad problems. And far to less people care about it. We all only care about our asses, harshly speaking. But it's the truth. So I'm really really happy when I see somewhere some jumbo posters or ads on TV about awareness of how serious those things are, how tense the situation is. And far to many kids are ungrateful, bored, just sassy and spoiled. They don't even realise how lucky they are that they're not beaten at home, that they have roofs under their heads, wi-fi, food... So many things they should be grateful for. But no, instead of taking a moment and thank for all they have, they only want more. I mean, isn't that sad and scary? How we all sometimes are selfish and ignorant and don't know what we have? But yeah, at the same time; we live that life and they theirs. But still, that doesn't mean, it's not an excuse and certainly doesn't keep us apart from aware people of family troubles. We should do it a lot more often, get people together, talk about it, do something about it.
I have a school-mate and she almost everyday comes to school with bruises she's trying to hide, but everyone sees them. And no one says shit. I talk to her often, but she just pushes me away and after all, like most people think: It's none of my business. But she IS my friend and I see her everyday at school and have known her for nine years, therefore it IS my deal, it IS my business and I should do something about it. I can't just peacefully watch her cry on toilets and act like I didn't see anything?! And above all that, it's sad that there are so many cases like hers around the world and we don't know about them. Women get hurt, parents drinking, gambeling issues, debts, criminal acts... So many options and all those are around us. We should think about it more and aware people about that, get them to know to this stuff. Teach them what to do. Teach them to listen and to react. To have a voice.
But, fortunately, there are also families, that don't have such big issues.Who might yell sometimes and argue and be angry, but then again; which isn't? We all have problems, but should be grateful that we can solve them. Yes, there are times when things look like they can't be solved and that there isn't any solution. But there is, in every problem and hard time. "Happiness can be found even in the
darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light." smart, great Dumbledore says. And I totally agree with him. Each step, moment and situation has to be taken with care, love and attitude. Every little thing becomes so easy, light, simple and resolvable when it the end is approaching, when it's near that you can even feel it. Then suddenly, every single problem is not a problem anymore. It was just a era that seemed impossible to cross. But now it's over. Remember: nothing lasts forever. Enjoy good times, because they will pass. And when you're in a bad mood, sad or think it's not making any sense anymore, remember; it cannot last for long either. So hold your head up high and enjoy the view.Now the relations in family. I think to maintain good relationships between any member of the family, it's important that every single thing you do you do it with love. Because family is all about love. What else could be more, than family? They were, are and will be there for you. Trust me. So sometimes, yes, you have to swallow your pride and admit and move on. It helps, really. It saves you a lot of time, arguing and hard times. You'll see.
Anyway, there can be "special" bonds between relatives too. And by special, I mean, again, problems. It can be your father, mother, brother,... Anyone, really, cause we all have flaws. But in the end, we'd all like to forgive each other, hug and say that it's gonna we alright. In the end, it's alright. If it's not alright, it's not the end.
So believe in your family and things will be achievable. Things will get better and so will relations. We all need family, we all need each other, someone who will got our back when no one else will. That's what family's for. To stand by you and ALSO let you be what you wanna be, help you finding yourself in the blur of madness, confussion and unoriginality. Just stand up, if family doesn't believe in you or you in yourself, who will? They're the only thing you've got left. And trust me, it is worth of a try. Just try.
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