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Another A: Angus, Thongs And Perfect Snogging

 I just had to include this one too, because it's one of my favorite movies. It's so sweet that I die each time I watch it (and I've watched it over five times, sorry I'm not sorry) and I regret nothing. I think it's in the twisted plot that attracts every viewer, regardless of their age. It talks about all sorts of normal teenage topics and also teaches us a lot about life. I love it how it describes the most awkward subjects of these four teenage girls, but can make them sound so interesting and hilarious. The things they talk about is on every girl's mind, don't try to deny it, I certainly won't. I love it how it makes me feel like finally somebody gets it, you know, our foolish language and silly minds. It is a perfect motivation movie for girls who feel not so sure about themselves, are insecure and have bad thoughts about themselves. It kinda lifts you up and gives you the feeling of freedom, power and like every single thing on planet is doable, that everything's reachable. You just have to trust in yourself. But still; Georgia has done some awful things I think I'd for sure never would, but hey - everyone makes mistakes and I love it how Robbie still loved her after everything. They were perfect little high-school sweethearts.

 Now I'm not saying it was a perfect fairy tale teen movie because it was quite the opposite of all the million teen-drama romance comedies they make per year and how every girl says how she found herself in that dumb shallow movie. I really found myself in this unperfect and unusual movie that many girls might find odd and awkward. But I find it normal and completely understandable for our age and finally somebody put it in movie (or to be percise: it was a book first, then they made a movie, but it's still perfect okay, bye). I can really identify myself and it just brings warmth in my heart to think that once, for a change, something went right for Georgia. She wanted him and she got him. I must confess, though, that I couldn't never ever gather all the courage she did to make a move on Robbie. She believed in herself, she was being herself and for a reward from life - she got what she wanted. It's so simple when you think like that. It is sooo nice to think that, once for a change, somebody would like me back. And for another change; I did moves, too. But I guess he's just not meant for me ... Anyway, I'm happy for Georgia and all girls alike her (including myself). I wish all the not-so-big-boobs-blond-barbies, as Georgia would call it, get what they want for a change. I know how much it hurts to hope and crave for something that might never even happen. And I like to think that there were other conditions, here in the movie, as here where I live. I mean, of course it was different, but especially how Robbie started first with saying to Tom about serving alone to those beautiful girls (in the organic shop - Jas's and Georgia's first meeting with the twins) and how he noticed them first. That is not so common from where I come from (well, that is reality) and how when I drift in to sweet temptation of daydreaming of unreal things I must remind myself that it is still and always be a movie, so in a way it is a fairy tale. But more realistic one than ever. And it kinda gives me goose bumps to just think that I myself could possibly be Georgia anytime. It also gives me hope and inspires me. Because even she got a boyfriend, so I shall not stay alone. I simply can't.

 And by being alone I don't mean that I necessarily need to be with him (my new crush). I mean that I don't wanna end up alone. And this movie gives me courage, gives me hope and new energy to live, adrenaline to be yourself and let things sort their way out themselves. It's so fun to leave everything to chance's, life's just too short to cry over stupid things like if
someone laughed at you, someone you might like. Well, that kinda hurts, but I think she doesn't give a damn anymore. She decided to have something and she at first gave everything to get his attention and I think it's inspiring how this little lady showed off her real beauty, originality that no one else had, kind heart and soul that Robbie saw in her. Because the fate had to go her way one day. It just had, good things return to those who do good, even though when she used him at that concert of his band. It wasn't nice but somehow he still accepted her and after that, I still have faith in myself. Not that I am doing anything similar to test the patience of my (imaginary) boyfriend or whatever, I'm just saying that true love is looking past all the mistakes (but still not completely forgetting them) and see the real beauty in someone, all the good qualities they possess. I think that's the real definition and I believe I will meet someone like that one day and that I'll be that person to them, too.

 So that movie is for all the girls out there who don't feel sure of themselves. Who constantly check themselves in the mirror to look perfect, even though that's not what they see in the reflection and almost want to throw up when they see it. Who keep asking themselves what's wrong with them, who keep wandering if anyone's gonna ever love them. Who keep assuring themselves they are not good enough and so on and so on. I know how it feels like because I am one of those girls. I know how it is to feel completely useless and hopeless and like there's nothing you can do about your face. Well, that is true in a way, but you can completely change the way other people see you. First of all (to get things cleared): people see you okay in the first place, I'm just telling you what to do for you to see that beauty and to express even bigger light that you already give off. You have to clear your mind with all those negative thoughts. My psychologist one said: "One negative thought is worth nine positive, so you better rethink before thinking." It went something like that, but I can't totally remember, but you get the point. You have to think happy thoughts, and you will be happy. It's all in the power of the mind.
 But that movie also taught us how to get what you want (in a more materialistic way - Robbie, for instance) quickly and effectively. You have to have faith in yourself, girl! And he will notice you. I wish I could myself already reach that point that I can't stop preaching about. But since I talked to my psychologist I feel already more comfortable with myself, more content and confident with also my face and my inner beauty, that, she said, not so many people have. I instantly felt better because she complimented me so on the outside as on the inside. And from time to time we just need to give each other a couple of compliments and your friend and yourself will feel much better, try it. It really releases stress, even if just for a little bit, anything is good. Everything is good enough, as long as you do it with love and faith. Everything will come in your favor. And I just wish that all the insecure girls in the world will one day notice themselves as the best looking girl in the school or whatever they wish to compare to. You can be anything and anyone you want. A great words and a quote to live by: "If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thingyou're right." - Henry Ford. Always keep that in mind.               

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