I can see many people, mostly adolescent, changing into objects of lust. It makes me sad to realize how good they once were and that I can't stop them since I have completely no right to do such thing, even though if I only wish them well. We must accept that people won't change because of us or stay the same. We must learn that change is the part of our life, but I can't seem to just ignore the fact that I used to know that people, they used to know me and that they were such different people back then. And than I ask myself: "What if one day everyone's gonna give up being themselves and that one day we will become just society's idea of perfection?" What if that actually happens? I'm scared of that and that is kind of change I don't wanna be a part of or don't even wanna hear about it. Because then you develop so many new questions about your friends that are only haunting you for no reason like will they change too and if they'll broke their promise of being forever themselves? I know the only person who should feel any regret of doing things is the doer, but it's hard to let go of the person who used to mean so much to you and is now simply gone. Most people (including myself) just can't accept that so soon, even though years may pass. I know that's a problem I must fix in my head, too, and stop worrying about if those who have changed will ever get back their senses. But I'm afraid about the future of the next generations.
What if they don't see the reason to fight anymore? What if they'll become exactly what the leaders of this world want them to become? I can't even think of that without having some kind of backup plan. We must change this. We also have to change today's society. We can't have that low standards. But first; we have to start with ourselves. We have to have this personal ethics in us so we know where the line is. I just hate it when you know all these oh-so-popular kids on Facebook publish very deep posts saying they are against being fake and looking all perfect and having a perfect body and all, when their actions are the exact definition of what they're saying they're against to. It's funny how small actions seem to them, it's just I hope one day our generation will come to their senses and see all the stupidity they are following like little sheep. But for me, the only worry right now is that my closest friends are still people who I first met and instantly got along. I just fear they will give up on being independent, themselves and unique, just different, you know? I guess things like that aren't as appreciates as once were and people are getting afraid of being forgotten (by not enough people around them not knowing about them), while they will be forgotten just by becoming the kind of people around them. I can't see why people don't realize that. I guess they wanna follow the trends these days.
And it's not only becoming a trend in girls' society, but it's becoming more and more popular with boys, too, and that's making me even more sad. It's common knowledge that girls can be bimbos sometimes and do many things for the attentions of the guys, but boys who know what they want won't go for easy girls like that. But that was the past and I guess all I can say is that time is just really changing and I'm sad to acknowledge I'm living in this era where the popular outfit are snapbacks, bling blings around necks and baggy pants below their knees. I think at this point, since it has gotten so far, I can say that I am not pleased with such change. I know my poor opinion doesn't count, but it does for my inner ethics and morality and my friends. I want at least the people around me to know that I do not support this kind of movement. It's just I'm not being old-fashioned or anything, it's just that I really can't watch all these people throwing themselves away like that. It hurts my heart that 'twerking' is the popular "dance" nowadays. It's gone so far that when I'm acting polite people think I'm flirting. And then I'm considered as silly one. I'll get over that one because I simply don't care what people say about me, what I'm more worried about is how the world is going to pick itself up and by the world I mean my generation in the world and when will they realize how stupid they're behaving. No one's got any self-respect left and when some girls do, they're considered and called as old spinsters, no-lifers, not knowing what enjoying life is and that they're making damage to themselves anyway. I have respect for those people who really have the guts to stand out in such a bit crowd of people who only live for the attention of others, who are constantly lying in wait for normal people to make mistakes and have flaws. I think the most unhappy people are those who care the most about what other people think. And I feel sorry for them.
I can say that giving up and being like the rest is the easy way. I can say that they've chosen the easy way, but I never know if they had any choice. Okay, that might be a bit funny for me to say since I've pointed out the bad things about "passing over" on that side, but I think we're still all human. That's me seeing it both sides which many people don't. I can say all I want about how fake they are and make up some theories in my head why they've done it, but nothing will change. Nothing in their head will change. They probably have some damn good reason to be as they are today and as I have the right to disagree they have the right to choose which way to go in life. It's not my life to say how they should live it. But it hurts when it's the person's life who once loved you.
What if they don't see the reason to fight anymore? What if they'll become exactly what the leaders of this world want them to become? I can't even think of that without having some kind of backup plan. We must change this. We also have to change today's society. We can't have that low standards. But first; we have to start with ourselves. We have to have this personal ethics in us so we know where the line is. I just hate it when you know all these oh-so-popular kids on Facebook publish very deep posts saying they are against being fake and looking all perfect and having a perfect body and all, when their actions are the exact definition of what they're saying they're against to. It's funny how small actions seem to them, it's just I hope one day our generation will come to their senses and see all the stupidity they are following like little sheep. But for me, the only worry right now is that my closest friends are still people who I first met and instantly got along. I just fear they will give up on being independent, themselves and unique, just different, you know? I guess things like that aren't as appreciates as once were and people are getting afraid of being forgotten (by not enough people around them not knowing about them), while they will be forgotten just by becoming the kind of people around them. I can't see why people don't realize that. I guess they wanna follow the trends these days.And it's not only becoming a trend in girls' society, but it's becoming more and more popular with boys, too, and that's making me even more sad. It's common knowledge that girls can be bimbos sometimes and do many things for the attentions of the guys, but boys who know what they want won't go for easy girls like that. But that was the past and I guess all I can say is that time is just really changing and I'm sad to acknowledge I'm living in this era where the popular outfit are snapbacks, bling blings around necks and baggy pants below their knees. I think at this point, since it has gotten so far, I can say that I am not pleased with such change. I know my poor opinion doesn't count, but it does for my inner ethics and morality and my friends. I want at least the people around me to know that I do not support this kind of movement. It's just I'm not being old-fashioned or anything, it's just that I really can't watch all these people throwing themselves away like that. It hurts my heart that 'twerking' is the popular "dance" nowadays. It's gone so far that when I'm acting polite people think I'm flirting. And then I'm considered as silly one. I'll get over that one because I simply don't care what people say about me, what I'm more worried about is how the world is going to pick itself up and by the world I mean my generation in the world and when will they realize how stupid they're behaving. No one's got any self-respect left and when some girls do, they're considered and called as old spinsters, no-lifers, not knowing what enjoying life is and that they're making damage to themselves anyway. I have respect for those people who really have the guts to stand out in such a bit crowd of people who only live for the attention of others, who are constantly lying in wait for normal people to make mistakes and have flaws. I think the most unhappy people are those who care the most about what other people think. And I feel sorry for them.
I can say that giving up and being like the rest is the easy way. I can say that they've chosen the easy way, but I never know if they had any choice. Okay, that might be a bit funny for me to say since I've pointed out the bad things about "passing over" on that side, but I think we're still all human. That's me seeing it both sides which many people don't. I can say all I want about how fake they are and make up some theories in my head why they've done it, but nothing will change. Nothing in their head will change. They probably have some damn good reason to be as they are today and as I have the right to disagree they have the right to choose which way to go in life. It's not my life to say how they should live it. But it hurts when it's the person's life who once loved you.
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